2017年7月16日星期日

Marti Laney《內向者求生術:內向者如何在外向的世界嶄露鋒芒》摘錄 (一)

James Roger「安靜的人們常常具有深刻的洞察力。淺淺的溪流或河水奔流迅速,較深的水域似乎較為平靜。」(《寫在前面.我是怎樣寫這本書的》
性格內向者最顯著的特徵是他們精力的來源:他們從自己的內在世界,如思想、情緒和觀念中獲得精力,並善於保存精力,但也容易受到外在世界的刺激影響,並產生「刺激太多」的不適感--這種感覺有點像是熱鍋上的螞蟻,或是遲鈍麻木。(第一章《甚麼是內向性格?你也是性格內向者嗎?》)
性格外向者最明顯的特徵是甚麼?他們的精力來源來自外在世界--如各式各樣的社交活動、形形色色的人們、不同的場合和事物。他們是精力的揮霍者。長時間置身事外、沉思、獨處,或是只與另一個人待在一起,難以使他們感覺興奮。(第一章《甚麼是內向性格?你也是性格內向者嗎?》)
性格內向者就像是充電電池:他們需要停止耗費精力,停下來休息,以便再次充電。性格外向者就像是太陽能電池板。對他們來說,獨處或是沉思,就像是生活在沉重的烏雲之下。太陽能電池板需要太陽來再次充電–性格外向者向外四處活動以獲得充沛的精力。(第一章《甚麼是內向性格?你也是性格內向者嗎?》)
性格外向者喜歡體驗大量的外在刺激,而性格內向者喜歡深入瞭解自己所體驗的事物。(第一章《甚麼是內向性格?你也是性格內向者嗎?.外向和內向的主要差別》)

性格內向者從事較多的內心活動,從外在世界進入其大腦的外在事物都會使他們的緊張程度迅速變高。這有點像搔癢–一開始感覺美妙並有趣,但很快就變成了「刺激太多」的不適感。(第一章《甚麼是內向性格?你也是性格內向者嗎?.外向和內向的主要差別》)
(翻譯:楊秀君)

2017年7月1日星期六

Good Quotes —— The Wit and Wisdom of Lee Kuan Yew (4)

A “level playing field” is not part of Chinese culture; guanxi or personal links is.―――On China
Outside powers cannot re-fashion China into its own image. Let us not forget that even China’s conquerors like the Mongols in the 13th and 14th centuries, and the Manchus in the 17th and 19th centuries, could not change Chinese culture. Instead China changed them and they were absorbed and assimilated. The language and culture of its conquerors could not overcome Chinese language and culture.―――On China
As China develops and becomes a largely urban society, its political system must evolve to accommodate a large middle class that will be highly educated, better informed and connected with the outside world, one that expects a higher quality of life in a clean environment, and wants to have its views heard by a government that is transparent and free from corruption.―――On China
Estate duty is one of those forms of taxation which can be used deliberately to counterbalance the unjust distribution of wealth and prevent its perpetuation…[Y]ou really do not hurt anybody because you have really taken it from no one. All you have taken away from the sons and heirs and successors is not money, but just the hope of a succeeding to money. That might be painful for a week or two after the will has been read and duties have to be paid, but it is certainly less painful than if we were to impose a capital levy while the man who has made his millions is still alive.―――On Prosperity
Wealth and poverty are relative things. You have acute tensions…not so much because you are too poor as against another person or you are too rich, in the absolute sense, but whether you are relatively too much better off than the other to cause the other fellow dissatisfaction.―――On Prosperity
It is nonsense to say that this government is rich while the people are poor. This is true only when the leaders steal the nation’s wealth.―――On Prosperity

If your option was, I want a condo, I want a Mercedes, then you aim for those professions which will bring you those results. But you have chosen English Literature. If you were my daughter…I would tell her…there’s no money in it unless you are really good.―――On Education